Leadership is not something that new for everyone.But , the courage to take up as a leader is not as easy as what other people think.
Election are everywhere , country electionn , MC election , LC election , US election , but how many of us think of those people who took up the courage to apply to be a leader?We are there to criticise without thinking how much contribution that have been given by us?We are there to say everything that we want but without consider the feeling of the candidates.
For me , I never think of want to be a great leader, Perhaps is just like the text book definition , leader is someone that lead a group a people to achieve a goal.Wau , is easy , just lead a group of people , maybe just 5 or 6 of them , then to achieve a simple goal , thats finish your task.
but , until i apply to be the leading member is AIESEC Malaysia, I know that is always about responsibility , commitment and motivation.
I got enough motivation test in this semester, my VISA application got problem , my aiesec first election is a failure, my thesis is under critical stage , my study does not turn up as good as I think , my industrial training is still pending , my relationship with God is further, i am having communication problem with my friends, or even I am having problem with my family member, and my beloved one.
Every time when I thought i will be struck down by all these, but I didnt. Every time I thought I will just jump from a building to end up all my stress, but I dint. I want to be look good, i want to be looked tough , but actually deep inside , i am not. I mourn before i sleep.
is a voice inside my heart that keeps me moving. Is it God is leading me , or is it "someone" which can be a leader of myself is leading me ? I have no idea on how is it , I just know i want to keep on moving. I dont want to give up until that day which does not really to allow me to do so.
Life is like a roller coaster, is always up and down. Life is like a rhythm,where by if you like this song , you want to continue to listen again and again, By the end of the day , I am looking forward my eternal life with my Father, and I know he walks with me with my every single step.
6 comments:
dearie...
:) cheer up! you have been always a cheerful person aren't you?
to be successful this is some simple steps for you to follow:
[1] Change Yourself!
- you can't remain the same to expect things to be different.
- as much as you want to achieve MUCH, you need to change mcuh!
[2] Get a good Attitude!
- that is your attitude on your own success, if you want to be a leader, act like one! In fact, being in the best attitude is what an Christian should have, don't you think so?
- to have a good attitude, you need to be grateful with the things around you and small things are always worth to be grateful at.
- sometimes it is hard to be grateful, but the best cure to be grateful is lost - when you lost something, that is when you treasure them and wished you are grateful for having them.
[3] Focus on the right kind of soil.
- well, the problem is not what you seed, it is actually the soil that you seed on.
- if you don't work hard on your soil, your seed will not be able to grow well. You can't focus on your seeds only, your soil needs to be worked on.
- working on the soil is always hard and it stinks... but when you harvest, don't you think you will be able to smell the fragrance of your fruits?
- nothing comes easy, darling!
[4] Be Committed to growth.
- Like Joseph in the Old Testament. His belongings grew and grew... why? He was committed.
- Won't you be committed to your personal growth?
- the fact is, nothing grows with an empty head. You need to fill yourself with knowledge. If you want to be a leader, read more about leaderships, if you want to be a millionaire, read more about how millionaires succeed..
- Think, what is your motive? You have to grow with motivation.
- Knowledge is not power actually... a growing knowledge is power.
- So renew your mindset, put in a new mind for yourself.
- don't give yourself reason to limit yourself. do the things that you are able to do, don't look at those that limits you.
- And remember that, your growth is not measured by what you put off, but it is measured by what you put on to yourself.
[5] Focus
- too many distractions ruins your destiny.
- So focus on what is now and not what is in the past. Failures do happens, Disappointments do happen. But it is just something happened and it is not going to put you down forever.
- So, if you focus what is today... The Future is Tomorrow!
Anyway, it a preaching from Pastor Pat Mesiti from Australia in City Harvest this morning. I thought it does relate to your blog. Do come to me if you need to talk... I am always here. :) God bless.
Love,
Antonia [I used David's Google Account because I don't have one - hehe]
Ant, I do really appreciate your comments. you know at this down time of me , the one who always support me , is my brothers and sisters in Christ. You guys really give me a concrete support. Your words really enlighten me. I pray to God many many times today, ask for forgiveness for not to going to church often,not to be in the cg often.I really feel very embarrass and shameful when i pray to my Father.I feel motivated with your words, and thanks a lot ant, you are my true sister.
i sense signs and symptoms of stress!!
don overstress... nanti jadi giler XP
hey cheer! if u need any shoulder or ears..we are always here! do take care..take one thing at a time..miss ya!
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